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- Giving victims dependent on help. Need advice or help prevent bullying VG has put together an expert panel that will contribute their experiences and specific answers to your questions. Today they answer a question whether it is right that victims retaliate.
1. Several who have been bullied, has found that bullying has ended by taking again.
How do you consider such a method
2. Is it not important for one who is being bullied to put themselves in, eq2 gold, respect among the bullies
Tove Flack:
1. The word "victim" reflects the powerlessness faced by bullying. Victims of bullying usually have no possibility to get out of the situation by changing behavior, "catch up". They face a superior force, someone who is stronger than themselves. Bullies have the power to make them a victim and use it to boost their, sto credits, own status, a feeling of power and / or affiliation. The power to harm a victim, other than the victim take from them.
2. It is virtually impossible to put themselves in respect of a superiority that does not want to respect you. As a rule making such attempts situation worse for the victim, not better. It is inhuman to leave the victim to resolve itself., wow gold for cheap, Remember, they experience actual violations regularly and over time. Anyone who sees what is happening or hear about it, should be caring and actively help to stop bullying.
Kristin Oudmayer:
1. It must be beyond doubt that to resolve conflicts by the use of violence is not okay. In contrast, the experience of being able to dnd itself, of great importance to children's self-esteem and, darkfall powerleveling, confidence. It is important that children know that it's OK to be physical, for example by being able to push people aside as they fall, and runs away, if it needs to when you get backed into a corner. Most important of all, it is to teach children to set limits for themselves through words and body language.
2. Optimally there should be no need to go drastic approach to the topic to put themselves in respect of the bullies. As a starting point, one must be able to expect not to be bullied, and that there is room and acceptance for all types of people. But the world is not without bullying, and it is therefore very important to make children able to set clear boundaries for themselves. That way they can more easily put themselves in the respect and be less vulnerable to bullying.
Stian Lindbl:
1. I understand that anyone who is experiencing bullying may wish to catch up. I've seen situations where this has actually worked. But I will clearly warn against this as a general strategy. The situation can become worse and this one can not predict what the outcome will be.
2. Yes, if you respect the opinion that one should not let it go too long before responding. Those who are bullied should quickly speak out that this is not acceptable and that you are asked to notify a teacher or parent. Rapid detection is clearly a way to put themselves in respectability.
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